Read me at The New York Times Magazine

I spent five months talking to married people about *intimacy*

I’m in The New York Times Magazine today!

If you’re a regular reader, you know I’ve been speaking to married people about sex since late last year. My Times Magazine piece is now up, and provides a window into the lives of several women— and their male partners— who are pushing back against a long history of compulsory sex in marriage. As a result, many …