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Mad Woman Digest: May 2025
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Mad Woman Digest: May 2025

Stuff that made me mad and/or that I am madly in love with

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But first: a Divorce Fund Sale

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You’ll also be supporting me when it really matters. Divorce is liberating, but also expensive. I know times are tough for everyone as these nut jobs run our economy into the ground, so this week I’m running a Divorce Fund sale. Right now, a whole year of Mad Woman is just $56.

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ICYMI

I talked with

Melissa Febos
& R. O. Kwon for Mother Tongue Magazine about sex in the time of fascism.

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I published two more essays this month in a series on libido, including one on the state of feminist media. Here’s the full series:

Libido is a myth

Libido is a myth

Amanda Montei
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Apr 17
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"Desire disorders" are the new hysteria

"Desire disorders" are the new hysteria

Amanda Montei
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May 1
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Women tell their 'libido' stories

Women tell their 'libido' stories

Amanda Montei
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Apr 23
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The rise and fall of feminist media

The rise and fall of feminist media

Amanda Montei
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May 22
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I talked with whip smart momfluencer scholar

Sara Petersen
about pro-natalists’ bleak vision of the future, and their intentionally cringe Handmaid’s Tale adjacent frocks:

Pronatalism as empire-building

Pronatalism as empire-building

Amanda Montei and Sara Petersen
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May 13
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And I wrote about getting my time and my life back:

The secret no one tells you about divorce

The secret no one tells you about divorce

Amanda Montei
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May 29
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Our Reading Group also had a great discussion about Audre Lorde’s “The Uses of the Erotic.” We had such a great turnout for the live conversation and a truly wise, beautiful, erotic community connection. What should we read next month? I’ll send out a note with some options to vote on soon.

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